That idea was reinforced growing up. The message I got was that it was better to appear humble and not make a big deal of your achievements. The underlying Greek superstition was that if you talked too much about something good, you were going to give it the evil eye and everything would go to hell in a handbasket.
I've always been such a good student that I carried what I learned through most of my adult life. What that meant in my career was that as good as I was externally promoting my value, I wasn't as good internally in the companies I worked for. In my naivety, in what had been ingrained inside of me from childhood is that I didn't have to. My value would be recognized. I would be rewarded without having to point out why. Plus I was a woman. Bragging was something men did. Nice girls don't brag.
I can almost LOL reading that line back to myself.
My opinion about bragging changed ten years ago when I met Regena Thomashauer. Bragging in her book is a celebration of who you are and what you create. It's owning those milestones, big and small and allowing yourself to physically feel the full effect of what you've accomplished.
The Internet is full of so many people touting and promoting themselves that its easy to see why bragging is still seen as a bad thing to so many.
But when you brag from a place of truth and not made up hype and gobbledygook jargon it lands differently.
You get to feel your worth.
You're reminded that you actually have accomplished an awful lot - even though you were not taking the time to notice.
You get ready for more.
It's not easy to do in the beginning - but like so many exercises, the more you practice the better you get.
note: I BRAG this is Day #19 of a 30 Day Experiment!!! Here are the details on how it all started.
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